Comments on naijablog: 1000 memories: race in Maastricht

To msmak:Well said.Jeremy has his faults, but it i...

2007-07-19T20:36:00.000+01:00

To msmak:
Well said.

Jeremy has his faults, but it is obvious most of the haters (or idiots as I prefer to call them) have an issue with the very fact that he exists and writes better than they could ever dream and gets more traffic on his blog.

At Yellow Sisi and "Anonymous": na wa o, i don't u...

2007-07-19T01:46:00.000+01:00

At Yellow Sisi and "Anonymous": na wa o, i don't understand at all. A man starts a blog, writes about his many experiences in the land in which he now lives, his past experiences and how they may have shaped his present, and he is accused of presenting himself as "personal savior".

So pray tell, if Mandela or Clinton or you perhaps, decides to write their/your memoirs and happpen to recall some things that others would consider selfless or heroic or whatever, does that then mean that they/you want to be considered "personal saviors"?

Naija pple sef! Will stay silenet at the many buffoons and thieves in power, stealing and killing their fellow country men everyday, but want to come and attack one fellow worker bee just because he's oyibo. Abegi...

By the way, i don't necessarily agree with all Jeremy writes, but i am impressed at the amount of time and effort he puts into this, i've learned quite a bit through him, and i respect the fact that he is not originally from our Land yet has taken more of an interest and joy than most ex-pats, re-pats and fellow Naijas that i know in our culture and language and geography.

aw shucks - thanks for the kind reminiscence from ...

2007-07-19T01:26:00.000+01:00

aw shucks - thanks for the kind reminiscence from a million years ago. I guess I haven't changed much from back then. Who are you?

On the keeping quiet about injustice thing: its never too late to start!

But jeremy you were always making a scene about th...

2007-07-19T01:22:00.000+01:00

But jeremy you were always making a scene about this kind of stuff even back in school. Were'nt you a member of CND in School? I am not at all surprised that you did what you did and you ended up a vegan. You were always weird and leftist in school and you never cared what people thought about you.

I was just googling old people from school and I was directed to this site and your wedding site (your wife is beautiful by the way). You have done well for yourself and I guess we all always knew you would - with your cockiness and opinionatedness.

But looking back now, I wish I could be half the man that you were as a boy. And now reading this your post, I think of all the times I have kept quiet in the face of injustice. And you, you always did stood up for things even if you were going to get beaten up

I feel proud to know something good came out of Wolgarston High. I will now go and spend some time on the rest of your blog.

anonymous - the point about posting this memory is...

2007-07-18T23:59:00.000+01:00

anonymous - the point about posting this memory is not about self-congratulation - although of course I can see that it can easily be seen that way. I'm sure you can see from the rest of my writing on this blog that its not my style. The text is simply taken from an ongoing book project - 1000 memories.

The question remains though: how many people are prepared to make a scene where they see injustice? Isn't it precisely because there are too few white people who are prepared to intervene that racism is allowed to propagate?

hmmn didn't know that white pple were discriminate...

2007-07-18T23:31:00.000+01:00

hmmn didn't know that white pple were discriminated against, serves them right.......ok "i joke". Good thing you stood up for what you believe in.

their liberal meekness amounting to nothing more t...

2007-07-18T22:08:00.000+01:00

their liberal meekness amounting to nothing more than passive complicity

This just about sums it up and I have observed it some many times - just last week, someone got on the tram with his MP3 phone blaring out at full volume.

I got up and asked him to put on his headphones, he ignored me and no one said anything.

When he got off, everyone then said, it was a nice thing to tell him off.

But, if they were also irritated by the man, why did we not all combine voices and shut out the nuisance?

This is what irks me most about - Oh so liberal Holland.

proud of you. not many people would speak out. bla...

2007-07-18T21:02:00.000+01:00

proud of you. not many people would speak out. black or white. most black people would leave - silently burning in anger, but talk about the situationa afterwards when trading stories about racism.

but how many of us make a scene - like rosa parks did?

... bloody lowlanders .... ... wish we all had the...

2007-07-18T20:28:00.000+01:00

... bloody lowlanders ....
... wish we all had the same feeling about injustice, exclusion, blatant corruption ... well done adejeremy .... don't mind dat yeye person; anonymous.... fear no let am use im name .... yeye ... show ya face mr no name!!!

OK. (the all caps were unintentiontal in former co...

2007-07-18T18:29:00.000+01:00

OK. (the all caps were unintentiontal in former comment, didnt meant to shout- computer on 'caps lock', couldnt be arsed to unlock. And again, you've out-naija'd me..i had no idea (but thanks to you i do now,) that it was a 419 stylistic flourish to capitalize..just laziness on my part. what i meant about the pat on the back, was the fact that you SHARED (maybe i should italicize instead?) the story at all... altho', i guess this IS your blog, and you can do whatever you want. But seriously,and i am SO not trying to piss you off, this particular shared memory smacks abit (ok, alot) of 'what a great guy i am'. You are, and it WAS/is a great thing that you did/do, but somehow it just comes off a bit better when someone else says it. Am probably being a bit unfair, but had L___ told the story of what happened on a lazy sunday in amsterdam, i would probably thought, "Wow, what a cool guy".

good on ya! a bit disappointed you didnt add a fou...

2007-07-18T17:22:00.000+01:00

good on ya!
a bit disappointed you didnt add a four punch amir khan combo-two to the head and two to the lower body -then run!

"quite honestly i have now become bored of this be...

2007-07-18T16:53:00.000+01:00

"quite honestly i have now become bored of this belief u seem to have that you are the 'personal saviour/best friend' to the black man"

I must step in. At no point in his blogs has Jeremy ever presented himself thus. Neither has he ever presented himself to be 'so wise in [his] knowledge of all things African or more specifically Nigerian'. He lives in Nigeria. He observes and writes about his experiences. Finish. So he 'speaks' pigdin and anorexic Yoruba. So bloody what. Be honest. You're pissed because he's white.

I know Jeremy and he is not a 'personal saviour/best friend' to the black man' and he has never presented himself that way.

And for those that don't know, Jeremy has a Yoruba name; Oluwajeremy or even better, Adejeremy.

Uhm...so do you want a cookie? I usually read your...

2007-07-18T16:02:00.000+01:00

Uhm...so do you want a cookie? I usually read your blog and quite honestly i have now become bored of this belief u seem to have that you are the 'personal saviour/best friend' to the black man. Oh so wise in your knowledge of all things African or more specifically Nigerian! To be quite frank it's not a big deal, get over it and stop writing about you being WHITE and speaking broken english, yoruba, poor Ibo, pidgin hausa and the like...get over yourself! Apart from that the blog is quite interesting... uphold the colour/nationality free writing and i'll be back to peruse.

Hey anonymous. I find the idea of being patted on ...

2007-07-18T15:11:00.000+01:00

Hey anonymous. I find the idea of being patted on the back for such actions is revolting. Its just doing what anyone should do. My friend's secret pleasure was a surprise to me, because I thought she might have been embarrassed more than anything else.

Meanwhile, what's with the 419 caps lock typographic flourish?

Jeremy, are you sure the other couple did not have...

2007-07-18T15:09:00.000+01:00

Jeremy,
are you sure the other couple did not have a reservation?

Your Voltron, defender of the universe, I would say, though valiant, was not necessary; I would not have wanted to spend my money at an establishment that promotes racism any damn way.

Better off standing in front of the café like Kramer screaming "no bagel, no bagel, no bagel," and driving away would be customers.

TODAYS THOUGHT TOO EASY...WHITE MAN BAD/RACISM BAD...

2007-07-18T14:26:00.000+01:00

TODAYS THOUGHT TOO EASY...WHITE MAN BAD/RACISM BAD/LETS FIGHT THE POWER ETC ETC. DONT UNDERSTAND WHY UNNAMED "L__" "sECRETLY PLEASED" BY YOUR BEHAVIOUR.HER JOY SHOULD'VE BEEN OBVIOUS FROM THE BEGINNING. UNLESS SHE WAS SLOW ON THE UPTAKE? SORRY J. NOT IMPRESSED WITH TODAYS ENTRY. SEEMS LIKE YOU JUST WANTED A PAT ON THE BACK, 5 YEARS LATER, BUT HEY, WHO'S COUNTING?! BTW YOU ARE TOTALLY "MY KIND OF GUY" TO QUOTE OVERWOMAN, BUT PLEASE, A LITTLE MORE PROVOKING THOUGHTS?

My kind of Guy:)We often nourish way too may sins ...

2007-07-18T13:58:00.000+01:00

My kind of Guy:)

We often nourish way too may sins by birthing and feeding apathy.

I imagine what d scene wld av been like. I actuall...

2007-07-18T12:58:00.000+01:00

I imagine what d scene wld av been like. I actually feel racism should be stopped. I wonder why people still discriminate. Jeremy, dats a nice thing u did to the proprietor.